tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6485234340783571335.comments2023-09-18T13:01:59.416+01:00It's all about my LucyAvril Clarkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16563764797328640219noreply@blogger.comBlogger105125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6485234340783571335.post-87215647330008063792019-01-11T15:37:27.917+00:002019-01-11T15:37:27.917+00:00I’m so sorry to hear that Lucy is having problems....I’m so sorry to hear that Lucy is having problems. I didn’t know it was lingering issues. I am very glad that both of you were able to make Lucy’s notoriety a mostly positive experience. I know it’s hard to keep blogging when everything is happening around you, I struggle myself with taking the time and debating if I should change its direction. I’m just glad that even though we chat on occasion that you are able to post once in a while!Beth Lockehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02413523125628243429noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6485234340783571335.post-91110704786638380242018-04-18T11:37:56.554+01:002018-04-18T11:37:56.554+01:00thank you for sharing
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Sometimes stalls happen, but you both will gain momentum again!Beth Lockehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02413523125628243429noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6485234340783571335.post-66251584598288458942018-02-26T11:57:08.479+00:002018-02-26T11:57:08.479+00:00Hi Desire. I will be doing an update soon. It has ...Hi Desire. I will be doing an update soon. It has been a bit chaotic this year and we have been away for a well needed rest. Lucy is at the GIC tomorrow so will get something done after that so I can give a LONG update ;)<br />Avril xAvril Clarkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16563764797328640219noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6485234340783571335.post-60862811206244772962018-02-25T05:38:11.724+00:002018-02-25T05:38:11.724+00:00I’ve been hoping to see a new update. I have to a...I’ve been hoping to see a new update. I have to ask if both of you and the Family are ok. I don’t want to intrude but to remind you that you All have people thinking of you.Desirehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00668785638317674159noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6485234340783571335.post-57359925957404054082018-01-16T09:11:20.997+00:002018-01-16T09:11:20.997+00:00Thanks Desire. She is still not well at all and ha...Thanks Desire. She is still not well at all and had her pr-op check yesterday so roll on 25th Jan when she can have the other stent(s) put in and we can start getting our life back xxAvril Clarkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16563764797328640219noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6485234340783571335.post-80084752008661908572018-01-14T05:13:00.833+00:002018-01-14T05:13:00.833+00:00Very relieved you are getting some answers. We ar...Very relieved you are getting some answers. We are both nurses and sounds like after all this time you are on the right track.<br />Healing thoughts!Desirehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00668785638317674159noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6485234340783571335.post-55368562907392350572018-01-10T23:58:28.273+00:002018-01-10T23:58:28.273+00:00Thanks Beth. It was all over Facebook but put more...Thanks Beth. It was all over Facebook but put more detail here and anyone you are one of our good friends. As for Arsenal... I banned her last week but she was allowed this week as Megan and I were with her! xxAvril Clarkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16563764797328640219noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6485234340783571335.post-84774499732234028532018-01-10T23:05:46.095+00:002018-01-10T23:05:46.095+00:00Honestly, it costs people nothing, not one single ...Honestly, it costs people nothing, not one single thing to use the right pronouns. Anyway, I am so glad that Lucy is doing better, I am of course following along on FB. (see that she is going to an Arsenal match, crazy lady!) Give my love to the family and thanks for taking the time to post on your blog for more details!Beth Lockehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02413523125628243429noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6485234340783571335.post-7662750420967530372018-01-07T14:28:19.176+00:002018-01-07T14:28:19.176+00:00Hi Desire.... it has been mayhem recently as Lucy ...Hi Desire.... it has been mayhem recently as Lucy has been seriously ill. Hopefully doing an update this week about it all. Thanks for asking xxAvril Clarkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16563764797328640219noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6485234340783571335.post-83223869374770980202018-01-07T05:32:11.609+00:002018-01-07T05:32:11.609+00:00We haven't seen any updates as of late. We ho...We haven't seen any updates as of late. We hope all is well!!Desirehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00668785638317674159noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6485234340783571335.post-73625566196335673362017-12-12T13:11:20.662+00:002017-12-12T13:11:20.662+00:00Thank you for your kind words Beth. The salon was ...Thank you for your kind words Beth. The salon was quite an experience but Lucy is already planning when to go back which is good. <br />Lucy was nervous about the article but so far everything seems all good!Avril Clarkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16563764797328640219noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6485234340783571335.post-76803344822934327292017-12-11T19:02:23.704+00:002017-12-11T19:02:23.704+00:00Avril, I am so glad that Lucy had a positive exper...Avril, I am so glad that Lucy had a positive experience at the salon. It is not just how the stylist may treat you, but those in the salon as well. On top of that, it’s a fairly intimate situation, being groomed, and trust is hard to earn from those of us who have hidden most of our lives. Lucy has, with your help, cleared a huge hurdle and that is simply brilliant!<br />Good on you for contributing to a larger audience your unique view of relationships with a transgender spouse. That you are able to walk that line, giving advice and helping people like me understand our cis partners, is invaluable. It is invaluable, I say it again, because I feel it needs repeating. You are not only a friend, an ally, to us, you are a sister.Beth Lockehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02413523125628243429noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6485234340783571335.post-83918005403213096082017-12-10T10:00:31.505+00:002017-12-10T10:00:31.505+00:00Thank you for comment. Yes we are both relieved. I...Thank you for comment. Yes we are both relieved. It can be so worrying. <br />Avril xAvril Clarkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16563764797328640219noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6485234340783571335.post-53217710017585659972017-12-10T05:04:16.678+00:002017-12-10T05:04:16.678+00:00It's great to hear the challenges as well as t...It's great to hear the challenges as well as the success, thank you for sharing. You both must be very relieved.Desirehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00668785638317674159noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6485234340783571335.post-29662845672235365492017-12-05T09:12:28.849+00:002017-12-05T09:12:28.849+00:00Thanks Beth. We still have Lucy's sons, our pa...Thanks Beth. We still have Lucy's sons, our parents and siblings plus cousins etc to go. I can't wait until everyone knows and we don't have to hide anything any more and just be ourselves xAvril Clarkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16563764797328640219noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6485234340783571335.post-36376443794906406972017-12-04T18:31:42.103+00:002017-12-04T18:31:42.103+00:00Avril, I am so happy that it was so positive! Who ...Avril, I am so happy that it was so positive! Who is left in the family to tell? It will be so less stressful for you and Lucy, no hiding or having to watch pronouns. I can tell in our family, that having to still hide from Michelle's parents is a burden on not just her but our kids as well. Beth Lockehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02413523125628243429noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6485234340783571335.post-89496070015134435372017-12-02T09:52:50.753+00:002017-12-02T09:52:50.753+00:00Thank you for your comments which are so true. Tru...Thank you for your comments which are so true. True love is genderless. Good luck to you and your wife on your journey. It is a rollercoaster ride but it is enlightening.<br />AvrilAvril Clarkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16563764797328640219noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6485234340783571335.post-2320234739740419082017-12-02T05:54:30.225+00:002017-12-02T05:54:30.225+00:00Good for both of you and your Family. Love isn...Good for both of you and your Family. Love isn't defined by gender!! My Wife and I are beginning our journey. Both of us held the desire inside. Happy we opened up!Desirehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00668785638317674159noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6485234340783571335.post-44598985791430847282017-10-24T08:42:19.094+01:002017-10-24T08:42:19.094+01:00Thanks for your comments Una-Jane. I think all you...Thanks for your comments Una-Jane. I think all your answers would be answered if you read several others of my very many posts on this blog and not just one in isolation where I was responding to a TERF who keeps harassing me trying to tell me I am an abused wife which I am not. And yes we are extremely happy as are my/our informed children who feel they are not missing out on anything.... there is no inkling as they are fully aware of the situation.Avril Clarkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16563764797328640219noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6485234340783571335.post-1705103771872257172017-10-23T11:40:42.861+01:002017-10-23T11:40:42.861+01:00As a heterosexual woman I am puzzled by this blogg...As a heterosexual woman I am puzzled by this blogger. I assume that she is happy to be in a "lesbian" marriage with Lucy? Or perhaps Lucy has kept "her" birth genitals, in which case why go to the bother of "changing gender"?<br />Anyway, as long as the couple are happy and their children have no inkling that they are missing something, good luck to all of them.Una-Jane Winfieldhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01824882221979128270noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6485234340783571335.post-20722114084964892692017-09-27T12:32:15.683+01:002017-09-27T12:32:15.683+01:00Thanks very much. I shall continue to post and upd...Thanks very much. I shall continue to post and update. New post coming soon :)Avril Clarkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16563764797328640219noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6485234340783571335.post-33486407325911081462017-08-30T00:15:38.990+01:002017-08-30T00:15:38.990+01:00Miranda, your blog was referred to in the comment ...Miranda, your blog was referred to in the comment by the TERF. Avril was just relaying the comment. So your information is being used as a weapon against all transgender by this particular TERF. Just putting that out there.Beth Lockehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02413523125628243429noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6485234340783571335.post-23429791112620035292017-08-29T11:37:01.726+01:002017-08-29T11:37:01.726+01:00The blog you refer to at:
http://mirandayardley.c...The blog you refer to at:<br /><br />http://mirandayardley.com/en/a-history-of-autogynephilia/<br /><br />Was written by myself, I am Miranda Yardley, a transsexual. I write what I do not to be hateful, but to help trans people and anyone else understand what it is to be transsexual, and to critique what I see as aspects of trans ideology that are harmful to trans people themselves, as well and women and children. <br /><br />The etiology of non-homosexual transsexuals is quite well understood, I believe everyone should be treated fairly and with compassion, but this does not extend to indulging fantasy especially when this has a material consequence and effect on the rights of others. <br /><br />I would highly recommend to both yourself and Lucy this short essay by Anne Lawrence, herself transsexual, contextualising and explaining how and why many (non-homosexual) transsexuals are the way they are:<br /><br />http://www.annelawrence.com/becoming_what_we_love.pdf<br /><br />A lot of transsexuals I have introduced to this have found this has resonated and been helpful in understanding themselves. <br /><br />Sincerely, I wish both of you good luck. <br /><br />Miranda <br /><br />Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12908318536574787554noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6485234340783571335.post-60418898025639227462017-08-27T11:12:57.730+01:002017-08-27T11:12:57.730+01:00I haven't had this issue on my blog, but I hav...I haven't had this issue on my blog, but I have encountered it on my twitter feed. It's annoying more than anything else. They want to tell you how you feel or who you are, like they are an authority on anything but being angry. I have stopped trying to reason with them, and I can see you have as well. Beth Lockehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02413523125628243429noreply@blogger.com